Shatzi Weisberger
Shatzi Weisberger (born 1930) is an American death educator, activist, and retired nurse in New York City. Weisberger worked as a nurse for 47 years, later turning to death education after caring for a close friend who was dying. Her involvement in activism has included the civil rights movement, the anti-nuclear movement, ACT UP, opposition to police brutality in the United States including through Black Lives Matter, and anti-Zionism as a member of Jewish Voice for Peace.
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Born | June 17, 1930 |
Nationality | American |
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Early life
Shatzi Weisberger was born on June 17, 1930.[1] Her mother was a lesbian; she grew up in a small apartment with her mother and her mother's female partner,[2] though she was not aware of their relationship at the time.[2][3] Weisberger did not have a close relationship with either of her parents.[3]
Weisberger was married to a man for 18 years, and they had children; she left him after reading The Feminine Mystique. She later realized she was a lesbian.[3]
Career
As nurse
Weisberger worked as a nurse for 47 years, focusing on obstetrics and end-of-life care.[4] Her nursing career included the 1980s, which brought the peak of deaths caused by HIV/AIDS in New York; she worked as a home care nurse for those dying.[2]
As death educator
In the 2010s, Weisberger sought out education about thanatology, hospice care, and "the art of dying" in order to become a death educator[4] after caring for a close friend who was dying. She began hosting death cafés, which transitioned online at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic.[2] Weisberger is associated with the positive death movement[5] as opposed to palliative care.[4]
Activism
Weisberger's activism began with advocacy against redlining in suburban Long Island. She was part of a group that encouraged families of color to visit real estate agents and ask about specific homes; after the families were told that a deposit had already been made on the home they inquired about, Weisberger would expose the discrimination by making the same inquiry and being invited to make an offer for purchase.[2] She was also active in the civil rights movement.[6]
Weisberger was a political lesbian for a period of time,[4] was a member of ACT UP,[3] and was part of the public opposition to nuclear technology[4] as a member of Dykes Opposed to Nuclear Technology.[2] One of her earliest acts of activism took place at a die-in in New York City, where she cried because she felt that she was "in the right place doing the right things with the right people".[4]
Weisberger has been present at numerous protests and demonstrations in New York, leading The Advocate to describe her as "a fixture". She has been active in protests against police brutality in the United States,[4] supports abolition of the police and of prisons,[6] and is associated with anti-Zionism. At one Black Lives Matter protest in June 2020, which occurred on her 90th birthday, she was dubbed "the people's bubbie" (a Yiddish term for a grandmother).[1] She broke curfew to attend another Black Lives Matter protest.[2][6]
In 2021, Weisberger cited her age as a positive contributor to her activism, explaining that her presence "brings attention to the issues that matter" and expressing an intent to participate in "as many demonstrations as I possibly can".[1]
For some time I thought Israel could reform itself. But I don't believe that at all anymore. I realised that I can’t be a Zionist. No way. It is such an injustice, such cruelty, such distortion.
Weisberger, as quoted in Middle East Eye[1]
Views on Zionism
Like most American Jews, Weisberger grew up as a Zionist;[1] she hoped to travel to Israel and live on a kibbutz.[3] She later described this as the result of "brainwashing" during her childhood. She has stated that around 1983, someone suggested that she read a book she no longer remembers the title of, and it led her to begin questioning her views on Zionism and eventually to oppose the ideology entirely.[1]
Weisberger is a member of Jewish Voice for Peace, and told Middle East Eye in 2021 that being part of a community of Jewish anti-Zionists made it "much easier to protest against Zionism than it was before".[1]
Later life
Weisberger is disabled, with macular degeneration.[1] She uses a walker.[2] She sings as part of the Brooklyn Women's Chorus.[3][4] Asked about her "secret to longevity" in an interview for Glorious Broads, she cited dietary supplements, always being passionately engaged in a project, avoiding stress, drinking green tea, and smoking marijuana every night.[3]
In 2018, Weisberger held a "FUN-eral" for herself in the common room of an Upper West Side apartment building. Guests decorated a cardboard coffin, ate and sang, and Weisberger spoke about death and dying.[5] She told John Leland of The New York Times that she had worried she might die before hosting the funeral.[7]
Weisberger experienced symptoms of a heart attack in 2020 during the COVID-19 lockdown in New York. Rather than going to a hospital and increasing her risk of contracting COVID-19, she tried to relax and quickly recovered.[8]
Weisberger has stated that she hopes to "have time to experience my dying process" in her own home; items in her house are tagged with the name of the person she wants to bequeath them to. According to Weisberger, she wants people to "come, say their goodbyes, pick up their bequeath items" before she dies, and does not wish to be drugged. She plans to be buried in a forest in Upstate New York.[4]
References
- Essa, Azad (May 28, 2021). "Meet the 90-year old Jewish American woman protesting for Palestine". Middle East Eye. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Leah, Anna (June 17, 2020). "This 90-year-old New York activist fought racist housing practices, was a nurse during the AIDS epidemic, and is now protesting for Black Lives Matter". Business Insider. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- "Glorious Broad #15: Shatzi Weisberger". Glorious Broads. August 20, 2020. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Masters, Jeffrey (April 28, 2022). "Shatzi Weisberger: Meet The 91-Year-Old Death Educator". The Advocate. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Leland, John; Yalkin, Devin (June 22, 2018). "The Positive Death Movement Comes to Life". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Fahey, Maryjane (August 28, 2020). "3 Activists Over 65 Weigh In, and Act Out, on Black Lives Matter". Next Avenue. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Leland, John (June 24, 2018). "Putting the Fun in Funeral". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- Leland, John (April 7, 2020). "At 89, She Fears Dying Alone More Than the Coronavirus Itself". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.